Across the Same Words collection
When your child refuses to brush their teeth
The toothbrush is ready, but your child says no. This page brings together two short options from Both Parents and the matching situation overview. Choose an option, not a whole new speech.
From the book · Situation 22
A choice around the routine
Say this · Book excerpt
“Teeth get brushed morning and night. Do you want to go first, or me?”
Do this · Book excerpt
“Give choices around the rule, never about it: which brush, which paste, standing or lying, mirror or no mirror.”
From the book · Situation 22
A playful alternative
Say this · Book excerpt
“Should we brush like a lion or like a mouse?”
Do this · Book excerpt
“Sing the same two-minute song every time, so the ending is predictable.”
These excerpts concern the interaction around brushing. They do not assess pain, gagging or dental health, and are not instructions on toothpaste or brushing technique. Safety and individual care →